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Body Language
- Doesn't matter whether she is interested in you, you'll make her
interested eventually anyway:) But look for these signs to show you
whether you're already making progress:) It's also fun to look for these
signs as a by-stander, either in everyday situations or for example in a
bar - when the guy earnestly believes he is being sooo smooth but the
woman he is talking to isn't displaying any of the signs presented below,
you can't help but have a chuckle about it:) Body language is very simple
to understand but there is A LOT to take in (as you can see from the
length of this section) but once you have learnt the basics, there will be
no stopping you.
Her lips:
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Big smiles
with upper and lower teeth showing with a relaxed face.
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Biting of
the lips or showing of the tongue, licking her lips or touching of her
front teeth.
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She wets
her lips, some women use only a single-lip lick, wetting the upper or
lower lip, while others run the tongue around the entire lip area.
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She puts
her fingernail between her teeth.
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She
protrudes her lips and thrust her breasts forward.
Her eyes:
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She gazes
in your eyes with deep interest and her pupils are dilated.
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She raises
both eyebrows exaggeratedly for a couple of seconds, this is often
combined with a smile and some eye contact.
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She winks
at you while talking to you or winks at you from a distance.
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While
talking to you, she blinks more than usual, fluttering her eyelashes.
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Eyebrows
raised and then lowered, then a smile indicates interest in you.
Her hair:
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She pushes
her fingers through her hair. This can be one hand movement or more of a
stroking motion.
·
She twirls
her hair around her fingers while she is looking at you.
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She is
throwing her hair back off her shoulders.
Her clothing:
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If she is
wearing clothes that show her nipples underneath and you notice they are
getting perky and erect.
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The hem
goes up to expose a little more leg.
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She is
fixing, patting or smoothing her outfit to make herself look better.
While she is seated:
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She moves
in time to the music, with her eyes on you.
·
She starts
sitting straight up and her muscles appear to be firm.
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She is
sitting with her legs open.
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She sits
with her legs crossed in a manner to reveal her thigh.
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Her legs
are rubbing against each other.
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Her legs
are rubbing against the leg of the table.
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Her crossed
leg is pointed towards you or if that same leg is rocking back and forth
towards you.
Her hands:
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She exposes
the palms of her hand facing you.
·
While
talking to you, she rests an elbow in the palm of one hand, while holding
out her other hand, palm up.
·
She rubs
her wrists up and down.
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She sits
with one hand touching one of her breasts.
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She rubs
her chin or touches her cheek. This indicates that she's thinking about
you and her relating in some way:)
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She is
fondling keys, sliding hands up and down a glass, playing with toys or
other things on the table.
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She plays
with her jewellery, especially with stroking and pulling motions.
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She touches
your arm, shoulder, thigh, or hand while talking to you (in case you
already haven't started kino yourself, dumbass:).
·
She is
pretending to look at her watch as you pass her.
Her voice:
·
She raises
or lowers the volume of her voice to match yours.
·
She speeds
up or slows down her speaking to match yours.
·
She laughs
in unison with you.
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In a crowd
she speaks only to you and focuses all of her undivided attention on you.
Miscellaneous:
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She mirrors
your body language and body positions.
·
Her skin
tone becomes red while being around you.
·
She blows
smoke straight out from between her lips and toward you.
·
She leans
over and speaks into her friend's ear, just like in junior high school.
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She is
standing with her head cocked slightly at an angle, one foot behind the
other, hips slightly thrust forward.
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At a party
- every once in a while she seems to appear out of nowhere in your
vicinity and if you move to another spot, soon she appears out of nowhere
again, you catch her glancing in your general direction (actually,
glancing at YOU dummy!:), she bumps into you… accidentally, touches you…
accidentally etc:)
When talking to a girl, these are some of the more important signs to
watch for:
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Can you
keep conversation going with her?
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Does she
react well to kino?
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Does she
touch you?
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Does she
laugh?
Now I don't have to
explain what the answer "yes" to these questions means, do I:)
All these signs usually tell you that the girl is captivated by your
charms. But before you get there, chances are that her body language
changes as the discussion progresses. Make sure that you watch her closely
and as soon as you get a sign that should be an indication that you are on
the right track, keep going in that direction. If the opposite happens,
just change the subject and see what happens."
Update. The really gorgeous and
beautiful girls however very seldom get around to displaying the signs of
interest described above. They simply don't have to, as they are used to
getting some attention already long before that. With such girls you have
to be on a lookout for the initial and thus much more subtle signs of
interest. One example of this would be a gorgeous girl simply looking at
your face. Obviously people tend to look at what or whom they like to look
at. But whereas an average girl first just looks at your face and then
progresses into the more overt signs of interest described above, looking
at your face from time to time might be the only sign of interest you'll
ever get from the most beautiful of girls.
So if you think you're not getting any signs of interest from beautiful
girls - you are, but you just can't see them well enough yet.
Update. Here are signs of
interest sent from across the room. Most are applicable to both sexes. The
sequence of the list approximates the courtship sequence.
Size Genetics

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